I’m in love with someone, but she’s also one of my best friends and I know she doesn’t think about me that way. How do I get myself out of the friends zone?
Dan says “Friend zone = not cool. Firstly, you need to learn how to be a man and go after what you want a.k.a. develop your masculinity and sexual confidence around women. If youRead More »
I had a friend over last night to watch a movie and she stayed over at my house. Does that mean she’s into me?
Dan says “If she got naked, half naked, asked if she could wear some of your clothes or stripped down to her lingerie the opportunity is there for you to not fuck it up.IfRead More »
I can’t stop thinking about my boyfriend and I want to see him all the time, but he has a busy life and i feel like I’m an after thought. How can I get him to put me first?
Caroline says “Oh honey, no no no! If I was with you now, I would be giving you a smack on the butt! Nothing will drive a man away faster than a needy, insecureRead More »
Caroline says “Oh honey, you need to stop focusing on a man that you will probably never meet and go out and find a real one! Plus, Ryan and I are soul-mates and areRead More »
I think my best friend is gay and in love with me and I’m not the only one who thinks this. How can I get him to just come out already?
Dan says “You can’t. But you can have an open and honest discussion about how you’re feeling in terms of your relationship with them and the vibe you think you’re picking up. Be loving,Read More »
I was sexually abused as a child and find it hard to really connect with someone because of it. Do you ever really get over it?
Caroline says “Yes, you can. As a therapist, I am constantly amazed at what people have been through and made stronger from. If you are finding it hard to connect, please seek some helpRead More »
I’m a godfather to my best friends three year old son. I was babysitting for them on the weekend to give them a break and bumped into this gorgeous girl who i subsequently asked out on a date. The problem is that she thinks my god son is mine, and I was too flattered that she was interested in me to tell her otherwise. What should I do?
Caroline says “Tell the truth before you go out with her. If she catches you lying later on, your chances are blown anyway. Best to be honest upfront. The lies like that always comeRead More »
I’m worried my girlfriend wants to have babies. She’s thirty one and all her friends are married with kids. She says she’s taking her pill, but I checked yesterday and all the pills are still there. Do you think she’s trying to get pregnant?
Dan says “Possibly. I really don’t know. The fact that you’re worried would say to me that you don’t want to have babies with her. And the fact that you’re worried also says toRead More »
My girlfriend smokes pot everyday. She says she can handle it but she is becoming forgetful and moody. How can I get her to stop?
Dan says “There are always going to be things about people that you don’t like. But generally not liking a behavior in someone says more about you not being able to accept them asRead More »
My wife has been acting really hysterical lately and completely out of character. She’s starting to really scare me and i don’t quite know what’s wrong? I try talking to her and she get’s angry and tells me she’s fine. She’s really hard to be around right now. Help!
Caroline says “Sounds like she is stressed, upset about something or may be experiencing anxiety or depression. I would try taking her out somewhere and telling her you are concerned and want to helpRead More »