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Does my ex-boyfriend still think about me?

Does my ex-boyfriend still think about me?

Dan & Caroline January 3, 2013

Dan says “Maybe he is but who cares. You might call me insensitive for this but… you can either let it hold you back or you can decide to come back stronger and more

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How do I tell someone I’ve been with for three years that I’m not in love with them any more? Or that maybe I never was?

How do I tell someone I’ve been with for three years that I’m not in love with them any more? Or that maybe I never was?

Dan & Caroline December 31, 2012

Dan says “Build a bridge and get over yourself. Stop being so fucking needy and let them go. People change and it’s ridiculous to think that everyone will grow along with you. Now get

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How can I have a successful casual relationship?

How can I have a successful casual relationship?

Dan & Caroline December 27, 2012

Caroline says “I have yet to have one so I don’t have a clear answer for you. I think the best place to start is to be totally honest about what you want. Women

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I keep trying to break up with my boyfriend but he’s avoiding me. The longer I leave it, the more doubts that I’m making the right decision. I’m pretty sure he knows it’s coming. What should I do?

I keep trying to break up with my boyfriend but he’s avoiding me. The longer I leave it, the more doubts that I’m making the right decision. I’m pretty sure he knows it’s coming. What should I do?

Dan & Caroline December 24, 2012

Caroline says “If he is avoiding you so much you can’t even meet up to break up with him, I think that answers your question that you are making the right choice. If you

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I am in love with my ex. We had a short but intense and amazing relationship. I was in a bad space however and I cheated on her. I regret it so much and I tried to make it up to her but she was too hurt to forgive me. We slept together a few times but she couldn’t get over it and then I ended up hurt.

I am in love with my ex. We had a short but intense and amazing relationship. I was in a bad space however and I cheated on her. I regret it so much and I tried to make it up to her but she was too hurt to forgive me. We slept together a few times but she couldn’t get over it and then I ended up hurt.

Dan & Caroline December 17, 2012

She has just dumped her boyfriend and I saw her out this weekend. We didn’t speak but she kept looking at me really longingly. I didn’t approach her because she was so clear last

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I have been sleeping with a guy for four months. We started off as lovers, and talked about a relationship which neither of us were ready for…

I have been sleeping with a guy for four months. We started off as lovers, and talked about a relationship which neither of us were ready for…

Dan & Caroline December 10, 2012

…(both recently out of long relationships). However we keep sleeping together and have become close. Every time we get closer though he pushes me away, by shutting down. We have talked many times about

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Do you think it’s realistic to be in one monogamous relationship for your entire life?

Do you think it’s realistic to be in one monogamous relationship for your entire life?

Dan & Caroline November 29, 2012

Dan says “Hollywood, religion and fairy tales have a lot to answer for. I love a good happily ever after as much as the next person, but what’s fantasy versus reality? History tells us

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I can’t stop thinking about my boyfriend and I want to see him all the time, but he has a busy life and i feel like I’m an after thought. How can I get him to put me first?

I can’t stop thinking about my boyfriend and I want to see him all the time, but he has a busy life and i feel like I’m an after thought. How can I get him to put me first?

Dan & Caroline November 22, 2012

Caroline says “Oh honey, no no no! If I was with you now, I would be giving you a smack on the butt! Nothing will drive a man away faster than a needy, insecure

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I love my boyfriend, but he’s too submissive. How do I get him to man up?

I love my boyfriend, but he’s too submissive. How do I get him to man up?

Dan & Caroline October 23, 2012

Dan says “After an amazing night out together, on your way home whisper softly in his ear, “I’d love it if we tried something different when we get home tonight. I’ve been fantasizing about

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I’m worried my girlfriend wants to have babies. She’s thirty one and all her friends are married with kids. She says she’s taking her pill, but I checked yesterday and all the pills are still there. Do you think she’s trying to get pregnant?

I’m worried my girlfriend wants to have babies. She’s thirty one and all her friends are married with kids. She says she’s taking her pill, but I checked yesterday and all the pills are still there. Do you think she’s trying to get pregnant?

Dan & Caroline September 3, 2012

Dan says “Possibly. I really don’t know. The fact that you’re worried would say to me that you don’t want to have babies with her. And the fact that you’re worried also says to

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