Dan says “Maybe he is but who cares. You might call me insensitive for this but… you can either let it hold you back or you can decide to come back stronger and moreRead More »
How do I tell someone I’ve been with for three years that I’m not in love with them any more? Or that maybe I never was?
Dan says “Build a bridge and get over yourself. Stop being so fucking needy and let them go. People change and it’s ridiculous to think that everyone will grow along with you. Now getRead More »
Caroline says “I have yet to have one so I don’t have a clear answer for you. I think the best place to start is to be totally honest about what you want. WomenRead More »
I keep trying to break up with my boyfriend but he’s avoiding me. The longer I leave it, the more doubts that I’m making the right decision. I’m pretty sure he knows it’s coming. What should I do?
Caroline says “If he is avoiding you so much you can’t even meet up to break up with him, I think that answers your question that you are making the right choice. If youRead More »
I am in love with my ex. We had a short but intense and amazing relationship. I was in a bad space however and I cheated on her. I regret it so much and I tried to make it up to her but she was too hurt to forgive me. We slept together a few times but she couldn’t get over it and then I ended up hurt.
She has just dumped her boyfriend and I saw her out this weekend. We didn’t speak but she kept looking at me really longingly. I didn’t approach her because she was so clear lastRead More »
I have been sleeping with a guy for four months. We started off as lovers, and talked about a relationship which neither of us were ready for…
…(both recently out of long relationships). However we keep sleeping together and have become close. Every time we get closer though he pushes me away, by shutting down. We have talked many times aboutRead More »
Dan says “Hollywood, religion and fairy tales have a lot to answer for. I love a good happily ever after as much as the next person, but what’s fantasy versus reality? History tells usRead More »
I can’t stop thinking about my boyfriend and I want to see him all the time, but he has a busy life and i feel like I’m an after thought. How can I get him to put me first?
Caroline says “Oh honey, no no no! If I was with you now, I would be giving you a smack on the butt! Nothing will drive a man away faster than a needy, insecureRead More »
Dan says “After an amazing night out together, on your way home whisper softly in his ear, “I’d love it if we tried something different when we get home tonight. I’ve been fantasizing aboutRead More »
I’m worried my girlfriend wants to have babies. She’s thirty one and all her friends are married with kids. She says she’s taking her pill, but I checked yesterday and all the pills are still there. Do you think she’s trying to get pregnant?
Dan says “Possibly. I really don’t know. The fact that you’re worried would say to me that you don’t want to have babies with her. And the fact that you’re worried also says toRead More »