I can’t stop thinking about my boyfriend and I want to see him all the time, but he has a busy life and i feel like I’m an after thought. How can I get him to put me first?

Dan & Caroline November 22, 2012
I can’t stop thinking about my boyfriend and I want to see him all the time, but he has a busy life and i feel like I’m an after thought. How can I get him to put me first?

Caroline says

“Oh honey, no no no! If I was with you now, I would be giving you a smack on the butt! Nothing will drive a man away faster than a needy, insecure woman. You need to get a life, your own life and not expect your boyfriend to fulfill all of your needs. Look at your life and figure out what makes you happy outside of your relationship. It’s important to maintain our friendships and activities when you’re in a relationship. The more you focus on yourself and what you find fun, the happier you will be. This in turn makes you more interesting and exciting to your boyfriend, who will want to spend more time with you. You are an amazing, interesting woman, start acting like it!”

Dan says

“I hate to say it hun, but you probably are an after thought. If someone is busy from the get go and has very little free time in their lives, they are going to have to give up something to fit you in! Find someone that’s already looking for a relationship from the get go, or a relationship that gives you the time you want, and deserve.”