I’ve recently met someone I’m really attracted to but she’s currently in a relationship. What should I do?

Dan & Caroline August 6, 2012
I’ve recently met someone I’m really attracted to but she’s currently in a relationship. What should I do?

Caroline says

“Keep your mouth shut until she is single.”

Dan says

“I’ve personally been the catalyst for marriage and relationship break ups in the past. And, while you might enjoy the feeling of being “chosen” over someone else, for me that feeling was rather short lived. There’s a lot of amazing single people around so why make life more difficult for yourself and other people?This really has nothing to do with you, and more to do with the other person not being happy in their relationship. If you really think there’s something in it, I think the best thing you can do is give them space to sort it out without you. If it feels good, do it, if it doesn’t, then don’t. For me, when I really focused on the feeling, it never felt good.”